February 10, 2016

This question has featured before, but I've decided it's necessary to devote this topic to its own, easy-to-find post. This has been edited and includes some additions.

Q: How should I approach an escort/try to book someone?

A: This may seem obvious to many readers, bu...

November 15, 2015


Julie Bates, a sex worker rights activism trailblazer and leader, is someone I look up to immeasurably. She was a founding member of the Australian Prostitute's Collective - the organisation that preceeded the Sex Workers Outreach Project NSW (SWOP). She is involved i...

October 5, 2015

A very lovely gentleman took me to Flying Fish at Pyrmont for lunch on Sunday.

This is what I wore on what was a blissfully hot day! 






I enjoyed an entree of white anchovies, smoked tomato, and toast, and my dining companion started with scampi in paperbark with ma...

August 31, 2015

I'm really missing having my own incall space to host my lovers and I'm looking to settle into a new incall apartment again soon, and I know what I want.

However, I also want to know what YOU want. Whether you're a lover of mine or not, I'm very interested in hearing...

August 27, 2015



Recently there was a drinks night in Sydney for one of the review forums. There was some concern for the welfare of attendees, when some (researched, and many elements of which substantiated) allegations were discovered that could put their safety and privacy at ris...

August 25, 2015

I'm getting more and more questions for my Q&A series, and I love answering them! Please remember you are welcome to hit me up with a question at any time, about anything, and if I'm able to string together a coherent response, I will. 

Thank you to the Questioners wh...

August 23, 2015

“I don’t understand why prostitution is illegal. Selling is legal. Fucking is legal. Why isn’t selling fucking legal? You know, why should it be illegal to sell something that’s perfectly legal to give away? I can’t follow the logic on that one at all! Of all the thin...

August 10, 2015

Q: Why won't you follow me on Twitter? I want to DM you. 

This is awkward. Mainly, time. Partially, energy.

First, I already follow over one thousand accounts on Twitter. I already miss heaps of good stuff because there are so many people on my feed (that's right,...

July 26, 2015

Q: You don’t show your naked body off in your photos and I want to see more. Can I have a nude pic of you?

Sure. I have had a handful of people ask this in the last few months, so here goes.

Except my boobs are bigger, I usually look a lot happier, my hair is...

July 19, 2015

Q: I just want an erotic massage/I just have a foot fetish/I'd just like to give you oral pleasure/I don't want sex. What is the rate? Yes, I've seen your rates on your website, but what is the rate for what I want? I don't want sex, I want a "non sexual booking". Beca...

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